At 52, I thought I’d seen every kind of drama when it came to women trying to steal someone else’s husband. I figured I had it all figured out. But then my new neighbor, Amber, a young, freshly divorced yoga enthusiast, came along and tried to make my husband her next trophy. What happened next was a harsh lesson she never saw coming about why flirting with a married man is a terrible idea. About three months ago, a moving truck pulled up next door, and out stepped Amber—25 years old, blonde, and carrying herself with an attitude that practically shouted, “Your husband’s next.”
The whole neighborhood already knew her story: she had married a lonely 73-year-old man named Mr. Patterson, and when he couldn’t meet her demands, she walked away with half his assets. I watched from my kitchen window as she directed movers in shorts that looked more fit for a gym than a front lawn at eight in the morning. “Andy, come check out our new neighbor!” I called my husband. He strolled over with his coffee mug and nearly choked. “Well, she’s… young,” he said. “She’s trouble,” I warned, crossing my arms. “Mark my words.” Andy just chuckled and kissed my cheek. “Debbie, not everyone’s out to get us. Maybe she just wants to fit in.” “Oh, she wants to fit in alright… right between you and our marriage vows.” “Deb?!” “Just kidding!” I laughed. Trying to be the good neighbor I was raised to be, I baked some blueberry muffins and marched over to Amber’s place the next morning.
She opened the door wearing a silk robe that barely covered what she had. “Oh my gosh, how sweet!” she said, clutching the muffin basket like it was gold. “You must be Debbie! Andy told me all about you.” My smile tightened. “Oh, did he? When exactly did you two have time to chat?” “Yesterday evening when I was getting my mail. He was watering your roses,” she said, leaning casually against the doorframe. “Such a gentleman. You’re so lucky to have a man who takes care of things.” The way she said “things” made my skin crawl. “Yes, he takes very good care of what’s HIS!” I replied, stressing the last word. She giggled like I’d told the world’s funniest joke. “Well, if you ever need anything… anything at all… I’m right here!” “I’ll keep that in mind.” Within a week, Amber’s “innocent” behavior escalated faster than a teenager’s texting bill. Every morning, she’d appear by the fence just as Andy left for work, waving like she was signaling a rescue helicopter. “Morning, Andy! Love that shirt on you!” “Your lawn looks amazing!
You must work out!” “Could you help me with this heavy box sometime? I’m just so weak!” I watched this circus unfold from behind my curtains, steam practically shooting from my ears. One Thursday morning, I’d had enough. I stepped outside just as Amber was performing her usual act. “Morning, Amber! Beautiful day, isn’t it?” She straightened up, clearly annoyed by the interruption. “Oh, hi Debbie. Yes, it’s gorgeous.” “Andy, honey, don’t forget we have dinner with my mother tonight,” I said loudly, sliding my arm through his. Amber quickly jumped in, batting her eyelashes. “Actually, I was hoping Andy might help me move my couch this weekend. It’s so heavy, and I don’t know any other strong men around here.”
“I’m sure the moving company has a number you can call,” I replied sweetly. “They specialize in heavy lifting.” Andy cleared his throat. “I, uh, better get to work. See you later, honey.” He kissed my forehead and practically sprinted to his car. Amber’s smile faltered as she watched him drive away. “You’re so protective of him.” “Thirty years of marriage will do that to a woman!” The following week, Amber’s boldness grew even more. She began jogging past our house every evening, always when Andy was working in the yard. Her running outfits left nothing to the imagination, and her “accidental” water breaks looked like a well-rehearsed Broadway scene. “This heat is just killing me!” she panted, fanning herself dramatically. “Andy, you wouldn’t happen to have a cold bottle of water, would you?” Andy, bless his oblivious heart, handed her his own water bottle. “Here, take mine.” She pressed it to her chest like it was a diamond necklace. “You’re such a lifesaver. Literally!” I stepped out onto the porch with a garden hose. “Amber, honey, if you’re that hot, I’d be happy to cool you down!” She jumped back like I was holding a snake. “Oh, that’s okay! I should get back to my run.” Two weeks later, Amber played her ace card. It was a Friday night, and Andy and I were settling in to watch a movie when someone pounded on our door like the house was on fire. Andy jumped up. “Who could that be at this hour?” Through the peephole, I saw Amber, hair disheveled, wearing a bathrobe and looking panicked. “Andy! Thank God you’re home!” she gasped when he opened the door. “I think a pipe burst in my bathroom! There’s water everywhere! I don’t know what to do! Could you be a sweetheart and help me?” My husband’s protective instincts kicked in immediately. “Of course, let me grab my toolbox.” “I’ll come too,” I said, grabbing my jacket without looking at him. “No, honey, you don’t need to—” Before Andy could finish, Amber gasped again, “Oh my God! My bathroom is flooding! Hurry, Andy… hurry!” Andy was already halfway across the lawn with his toolbox in hand, like some suburban superhero. I followed them like a hungry cat chasing a rat. Amber opened the door, her robe hanging off one shoulder like it couldn’t decide whether to fall or cling. Andy stepped inside without hesitation, and she shut the door behind him. I moved fast. I didn’t ring or knock—I just turned the knob and slipped inside through the crack she hadn’t fully closed. I followed the soft sound of her voice down the hallway. “It’s back here in the master bathroom,” she purred. Andy followed, toolbox still in hand. I reached the hallway just in time to see her push the bathroom door open and gesture like unveiling a magic trick. And I froze. There was no leak in sight. Instead, there were candles, rose petals, and soft jazz playing somewhere unseen. Amber stood there in the doorway wearing nothing but lace lingerie, high heels, and desperation. Andy’s feet stopped moving. So did his brain. “AMBER?? What the hell is this?” he yelled.
Amber smiled, like this was some cute surprise. “Surprise!” Andy blinked and stepped back. “Are you out of your mind? I’m a married man.” She reached for his arm. “Andy, wait—” “Don’t!” He pulled away like she burned him. “This is insane.” I turned and walked away in silence, blinking back tears—half relief, half pride. My Andy had passed the test with flying colors. Loyal, if a little clueless, but loyal. As for Amber? She was about to get a crash course in boundaries. Back in our kitchen, Andy set the toolbox down like it weighed a hundred pounds. His hands were still shaking when he told me what happened inside Amber’s house. “Debbie,” he said, barely meeting my eyes, “I swear… I had no idea she would do this.” “I know,” I said, pulling him into a hug. “But now you understand what I’ve been trying to tell you.” His hands trembled as he held me. “She’s been planning this the whole time.” “Welcome to my world, honey!” The next week, I put my plan into motion. A few days earlier, I’d casually asked our elderly neighbor Lisa if she still had Amber’s number, saying I wanted to check on her after “that whole pipe fiasco.” Lisa, sweet as ever, sent it over without hesitation. While Andy was in the shower one morning, I borrowed the second phone he usually leaves at home and typed a message that would make Amber’s evening very interesting. Andy: “Hey beautiful. It’s Andy. My wife’s out with her book club tonight. Wanna come over around eight? Bring that smile I can’t stop thinking about.” It took her exactly two minutes to reply. Amber: “Ooooh… naughty! I thought you’d never ask. I’ll be there. Should I wear that little thing you saw me wearing last time?” Andy: “Anything you wish!” Amber: “Alrightyyyy!!” I smiled and set the phone down. That evening, I told Andy I was heading to the book club like usual. He was still at the office, working late, as he’d mentioned that morning. Said he probably wouldn’t be home till after nine. Perfect. By 7:30, my living room was packed with the most formidable group of women this side of Oakville: Susan, our retired police officer neighbor; Margaret from the PTA; Linda, who could organize a military campaign in her sleep; and Carol, who’d raised five boys on her own. “Ladies,” I announced, “tonight we’re going to witness a master class in stupidity.” At exactly eight o’clock, Amber’s heels clicked up our front walkway. Through the window, we watched her adjust her shimmery dress and dab on thick pink lipstick. She didn’t knock. She just opened the door like it was her house and was already halfway inside when—CLICK! I flipped on the lights. “Amber! What a lovely surprise! Please, come in.” “Deb-Debbie? What are you…? Oh my God!” She froze mid-step as the living room lit up like a stage. She was clearly expecting Andy, but instead found 15 pairs of eyes staring at her. The color drained from her face. “I… I think I made a mistake.” “Oh, honey,” Susan said, standing up slowly, “you made several mistakes.” Margaret crossed her arms. “We’ve all been watching your little performance.” “The jogging,” Linda added. “The fake emergencies,” Carol chimed in. “The complete lack of respect for a 30-year marriage,” I finished. Amber clutched her dress tighter. “I don’t know what you’re talking about.” “Really?” I held up Andy’s phone. “Because this text conversation suggests otherwise.” She tried to bolt for the door, but Susan, with her cop instincts, was already blocking her path. “Leaving so soon, honey? We were just getting started.” What followed wasn’t a confrontation—it was an education. Fifteen women, each with decades of life experience, took turns telling Amber exactly what we thought of her behavior. “You moved in and immediately started targeting a married man,” Margaret snapped. “Did you really think we wouldn’t notice?” “Honey, we’ve seen women like you for years,” Linda added. “You’re not original.” Carol leaned forward. “What you are is pathetic—going after someone else’s husband because you can’t build a life of your own.” Amber’s tough facade cracked. “You don’t understand—” “Oh, we understand perfectly!” I interrupted. “You’re 25, recently divorced, and you think the world owes you something. Let me tell you what the world actually owes you: nothing.” “Want an easy life?” Susan asked. “Get a job. Want a husband? Find a single one. Want respect? Start by showing some.” The lecture went on for another twenty minutes. We didn’t yell or threaten. We simply made it crystal clear her games wouldn’t be tolerated here. When we finally let her leave, Amber stumbled out looking like she’d been through a hurricane. “Think she got the message?” Margaret asked as we watched her cross the yard. “If she didn’t, she’s dumber than she looks!” Susan replied. The next morning, Andy found me in the kitchen making coffee. “How was book club?” he asked. “Educational,” I smiled. “We discussed consequences.” He wrapped his arms around me from behind. “Debbie, about the other day… about everything… I’m sorry I didn’t see what was happening.” “You see it now. That’s what matters.” Two days later, a “For Sale” sign appeared on Amber’s lawn. Three weeks later, she was gone. No goodbye, no dramatic farewell, not even a passive-aggressive batch of cookies. Andy noticed, of course. “Huh,” he said, peering out the window. “She didn’t say anything. Wonder why she left so suddenly?” I sipped my coffee. “Maybe this just wasn’t her happy place after all.” Andy nodded, still puzzled. Two months later, while gardening, our new neighbors moved in—the Johnsons, a lovely couple in their 60s with married kids who visit every Sunday. “Much better view,” Andy commented, nodding toward their house. “Much better everything!” I agreed. Here’s the truth about middle-aged married women: we didn’t get this far by being sweet and passive. We learned to fight for what’s ours and, more importantly, how to win. Any 25-year-old who thinks she can just waltz into our lives and steal our happiness is about to get a hard lesson in reality.
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